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Open Question: How am i suppose to move on when he won't let me?
Right... I was really to this lad who i met through a family friend. He did all the chasing and was perfect for me. He told me i was beautiful everyday and that he was so lucky to be even talking to me. We stayed close for a few months and we were at the point of deciding whether to make it official when something bad happened to him which left him fighting for his life in hospital. He was an absolute state, bandages everywhere but i still stuck by him and when he asked me to visit him i did, he use to text me late at night when he was in pain and i reassured him everything was going be fine, i even faced my fears of going see him at his worst. Once he was out the hospital everything was still fine, not as good as before as his confidence dropped a lot and he didn't think someone like me should still like someone like him. I stuck by him through all his mood swings, reassured him that when he's better we'll make it work and that even though he was going through a rough time he was perfect for me. He still made me feel special but then he decided he didn't want a relationship just yet which i understand but then i fount out he actually was in a new relationship not long after. I was devastated, i'm not going lie but i let it go and eventually i moved on and started having fun up until a couple of weeks a go. He's started coming back out and i see him every time he's out as we have the same friend. He was really full on with me, grinding up me, every time i went out the room he looked for me, kept staring and making the effort speak. I let it all go past me as he was texting his girlfriend at the time and as photo's of him and her on his cell phone so i kinda shook off what he was doing until the next day he was at the same place as before and made he got my attention again! he text me at the night asking if i liked him but pleading me not to tell his girlfriend. Recently i saw him out again and he was really full on, buying me drinks etc... and at the end of the night after being really close, grinding, holding hands, cuddling he asked me go in this room with him where just a couple of his relatives were and told me go with him (a quick one as he put it) and we went with each other 2 or 3 times. When i got outside before going home i got with him again and he kept telling me he'd try to get with me and make it happen. Once i was home he text me pleading not to tell his girlfriend and telling me that we both need move on because i'm a gorgeous looking girl and he feels as if hes a nobody. He tells me secrets what he shouldn't be doing and making sure i don't tell his girlfriend! thing is i had moved on before he came out again and now he gave me mixed signals i'm really hurting by the fact i've kinda been ditched again. He said that he wants be best friends and when he's out he'll look after me. Thing is he's telling me move on but when i talk to other lads when he's around he goes in a mood with me! i really don't know what to think, its really stressing me out. Please help me!